Thursday, April 9, 2009

Mommies Marching for Maddie

You all know that I love my kids fiercely. I am a Mama Bear when it comes to them and I would do anything and everything to protect them. My darling husband will also tell you that I feel deeply for other people's kids and he is often subjected to my ramblings and tears when something horrible has happened to a child. Often times, I don't know these people yet I find myself dissolving into a puddle of tears and wishing there was something I could do.

This happened just yesterday.

Tuesday night I was following a series of tweets that asked for Prayers for Maddie. Maddie is the daughter of Heather and Mike Spohr and they were in the hospital struggling to find out what was wrong with her. The last tweet from Heather was alarming and I went to bed praying that everything was okay.

I got up early and started my workout...then I learned that Maddie had passed away. I was heartbroken and crying. I spend the day fully in the moment with my kids, praying for the Spohr family and crying. Asking myself over and over why this had to happen and wishing there was more I could do...other than donating money to the March of Dimes and the family. It didn't feel like enough.

Madeline Alice Spohr

Through the day, twitter was all aflutter and at one time broken because of all of the outpouring of thoughts, love and support for Heather and Mike and Mommies that were just distraught over the passing of a precious baby girl. People were putting together memorial videos, organizing walks for Maddie and watching the amount of money donated to Heather's March of Dimes fund rise. It was amazing to watch and it made me feel better....like we were really doing something.



I knew I had to do something. One of Calvin's coworkers had a premature baby in December 2008 and he has struggled and is still in the hospital in Salt Lake City. I want to do this for him too. For all the babies that begin their lives early....or have them taken away too soon.

I've never been one to sit on my hands and I knew what I had to do. I enlisted the help of my friend Monica and Jessica and I decided to start a Mommies Marching Team. We are marching for Maddie and for Michael.

If you are in Northern Utah or any part of Utah and you want to join us please click here and join the team. And if you can't march with us....then please donate to our walk. Hey Oprah....this is the true meaning of Motherhood. We band together when one of us has suffered a loss and is hurting and we move mountains!

12 witty remarks:

CSquaredPlus3 said...

The Spohr family has been in my thoughts and prayers. March on, girl!

Amy in Ohio said...

Fantastic! These walks are such a tribute to that little sunshine!

We'll be rocking with you in Cincy on the 26th!

Parker N Bella said...

Beautiful video, brought me to tears. I couldn't even imagine. Good for you for starting a walk! I've always wasnted to join one because of Parker being a preemie and now I think I will for this pretty little girl!

Mrs. D said...

Oh that is so sad! What was wrong with her, did they find out? I, too, am very empathetic. Too much so, actually, I get very easily worked up.

jen said...

i am so proud of you for doing this. so proud.

Daisigirl said...

I know what you mean! It really shakes me up when I hear stories like this! Yesterday on the news they ran a "baby dies in hot car" story. It just makes my blood boil!! Good for you for doing this! Children are the best people on earth!

jenjen said...

What a great thing to do Connie! I hadn't heard anything about this (probably because I don;t know how to twitter).

That video made me cry. How awful to lose such a sweet spirit.

You are amazing!

XOXO
Jen

Kaycee said...

Connie, what a great idea! I'm all over this.

I will write up a post about it on my blog too, let me know what I can do to help.

Bobbi said...

That is such a horrible thing that happened, the family is in my prayers.

You're such a wonderful person to that for the family!

anymommy said...

Awesome. I've felt dazed since that day by the suddenness and sadness. Walking in her name is incredible - I can't believe how many people are going to be out walking for that little beauty.

Hillori said...

As the mom of three separate premies, I feel there pain. As a mother, I feel their pain. What a touching thing you are doing!

Amanda said...

Just wanted to let you know that even though I am far away. and I wish with every part of me that I could march with you that I donated so that I can be there in spirit at least.
Maddie's passing was such a sudden and shocking moment. I can't seem to get over it.